Own your thoughts, feelings, words and actions:You have the power of thinking,speaking, feeling and acting, you are the button maker, nobody can push your buttons unless you allow them to.
Stop blaming others: blaming makes you a victim & prevents you from changing your situation. Be a Victor and ask “what is my role in this situation?”
Stop complaining:when things don’t go as expected. Instead, focus on the hidden gems in the situation and the bigger picture. (what can I learn from this?)
Don’t take things personally: Stop assuming that every disagreement is a personal attack or about you. You always have control over how you respond. Ask”Is this about me or the situation at hand?”
Happiness is an inside job: it’s a decision you make, express your creativity, practice gratitude& acts of kindness.
Increase your level of adaptation :change is constant, be willing to embrace it for your own happiness and energy.
Accept others and let go the judgment :everyone has flaws and virtues. Start with yourself, then purpose to see the best in others.
Protect your integrity as your most valuable possession:don’t compromise your moral compass in an attempt to succeed or achieve faster.
Live in the present moment:be the gatekeeper of your thoughts. Make the best of it to redeem your past and create the future you want.
Use the power of intention: make choices that deliberately move you towards your vision and expected outcomes. Ask “is this moving me towards my goal?”